Personal Power e-zine, June 8, 2006

How to Create HIGH LOVE in Your Life in 12 Easy Steps

My heart leaped with joy as I read an unexpected e-mail from a respected friend that said, "You and your husband are beautiful together - it's obvious how much you love and respect each other. If I had only half of that in my relationship, I'd be a happy man!"

The flood of feedback from our reception guests was, "How do I create that kind of love and caring with the people in my life?"

Why do so many people struggle to FIND or KEEP pure love in their lives?

Is there something missing that isn't being taught in novels, movies, or parental and social examples?

How loudly can I say this.YES! There definitely is something missing, but you have to let go of many old beliefs before you can really sink your teeth into HIGH LOVE!

How is High Love different from everyday love?

I call it High because that's how you feel when you give it and receive it! Let me show you how to discover a love so pure and clean that surely it must live in only the highest part of your heart. This quality of love is rooted in respect, which encourages reciprocal appreciation and respect.

Here's a secret about love that I'd like to share with you!

Within you lies the solution to all your struggles and fears. This solution is your ability to love. It's a power that few have learned and most of us scarcely know it exists! I'm here to tell you it's REAL and waiting to be awakened by you.if you dare!

Why is it important to have High Love in your life?

Like food, water and exercise, love comes in degrees of quality and purity. Just as pure water, healthy food and regular exercise nourish and strengthen your body, the higher the love you give to yourself and others, the higher quality of love you receive in return.

To love without limits came naturally to you once, but most likely you've been taught to stop loving full out. Once you learn how to access High Love again, you can restore a loving part of you that may have gotten lost along the way.

How does Love benefit your relationships, business, and personal power?

The absence of love dries you up like a plant without water. The more love energy you feel, the happier you will be and the more people will be drawn to your loving energy and attitude. When you open yourself up to receiving more love, you gain more of everything!

What is the mindset of High Love?

Understanding that others may not know what you know (so give them some slack!)
Believing there is plenty of love to go around (abundance)
Feeling that to love and to be loving is contagious
Recognizing laughter as an indicator that you're really close
Connecting to a sweet youthfulness through love
Engaging in a worthy addiction, which is loving yourself and others
Looking for the positive in everything and everyone
Knowing that you actually have only two choices - fear or love
Realizing it's impossible to love or receive love until you learn to love yourself

What are the 12 easy steps to creating more Love?

Let others win and be right sometimes.
Accept and appreciate different ways to view the world.
Give because it feels good; forget about getting something back.
Listen to yourself and others without judgment.
Learn to give deeply to yourself, both physically and emotionally.
Honor your truth above all.
Be respectful to yourself and others.
See a need and fill it without being asked.
Learn how to see and stop making others wrong.
Learn to speak from your heart instead of your head.
Find the parts within you that block or reject love - then heal them.
Learn how to fall in absolute love with yourself.

If you're not feeling High Love, what are you feeling?

A client once said to me, "I don't think I've had a High Love relationship with anyone, especially not myself. I don't think I even know what it means to love. If that is true, then what was I feeling for my wife and daughter all those years?"

Most likely this client had experienced various degrees of connection, obligation, familiarity, chemistry, hope, fantasy or even illusion, but not Love!

Here's some great news - if you realize you have not yet experienced the unconditional, "I adore you no matter what", kind of High Love, you are at the starting point. From this point you can only go higher!

May you discover all the delicious levels of love and be proactive by removing anything that comes between you and your right to have it burn continually in your heart and life. It is an honor to love you!

About the Author

Personal power expert Michelle Rigg is the author of You Must Be OUT of YOUR MIND: A Step-by-Step Guide to Creating More Power In Your Life. Her clients usually see remarkable improvements in income, relationships, communication, focus, and clarity after completing just one workshop or telephone laser session. For a FREE 5-step course that will supercharge your personal power, visit http://www.createpersonalpower.com.

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