Additional Information for "Hot Summer Romance" Interview Listeners

Given the nature of radio and television interviews, many times Michelle Rigg can only scratch the surface of the information she'd like to share. This page provides a reasonably complete summary of her key points for this topic.

Three Steps to Nailing Your Summer Romance

Step #1: Choose the type of relationship you are looking for.

One Night Stand: Surface sex/hookup; physical only
Just Friends: Emotional/spiritual connection; nothing physical
Sex Buddy: Friends that use each other for sex; no emotional attachment; can sleep with others; no rules
Boyfriend: Try each other out until you get bored and want someone new; can't sleep with anyone else while you're with each other
Committed relationship: Go in stages; evolves naturally; can't be pushed or rushed; may lead to marriage (but no guarantees)
Marriage: Done playing the field and ready to settle down with one person; committed; tell others to stay back - this may be something big

Step #2: Who are you Being?

Here is a great rule to remember about creating the best romances: Be... Do... Have!

Who and what you’re being (fun, happy, mature, sexy, playful, needy, slutty, pathetic, insecure) impact the energy others see and feel.

Decide who you are being and you decide the energy of the experience.
Do the things that the type of person you are looking for likes to do. How you act, speak and behave are part of "doing."
Have the man/men, experiences and relationship(s) that your being attracts!

Step #3: Know what you want, then make sure your Choices and Behaviors are consistent.

Examples:

if you choose Sex Buddy, don't get upset if you find out he's got someone else on the side.
If you choose Marriage, you may not want to have sex on the first date... or even the 4th date! Wait until you develop a real friendship and mutual regard.

20 Tips From My Male Friends

Have a killer smile
Eye candy gets attention, but it's not enough to make a relationship last
Sparkle from the inside (self-love)
Be happy
Be confident in yourself
Be self-assured, independent, secure with yourself, strong
Be funny and interesting
Be witty, fun, a little crazy
Be friends, playful, spontaneous, not so serious
Be individual and unique
Take good care of yourself
Know what you want
Love sex play
Have your own thing going on
Be yourself and let me be me
Be non-judgmental and accepting
Stop pushing kids and a house on me
Love me for me, not what I can give you
Stay detached about the outcome
Let the past go

Want to Learn More?

Rock-solid self-esteem and loving yourself are keys to creating the ideal romance. To learn how to increase your self-love and develop a self-confidence that is truly sexy, read Michelle Rigg's guide to maximizing your personal power, “You Must Be Out of Your Mind!”

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